Sunday, October 31, 2010

Happy Birthday Gigi!

This weekend we headed to Knoxville for the birthday celebration of my sweet grandmother, aka, Gigi.  Grandma was recently diagnosed with a very rare autoimmune disorder and after some rigorous treatment, she has been home and under hospice care.  We were so excited to be able to spend her 82nd birthday celebration with her!  Here are a few highlights of the day...
My mom (right beside me on the left) and all of my aunts

Grandma had such a great time!

So many friends and family came by with cards and birthday wishes for her

Caroline and Uncle Mark

Jack taking a break from baseball.  All of my cousins wore him out for the day!

Caroline thinking of what to get into next

Grandpa and Caroline

4 generations

Such a sweet picture of my mom and grandma

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Fundraising...whohoo

It starts early...fundraising.  We absolutely love the school that Jack and Caroline go to during the day.  So much fun stuff and so many neat opportunities every day.  This is going to be a big week for him.  Jack is SOOO beyond excited about the field trip they are taking this week to the pumpkin patch.  They have been counting down the days to the trip since the beginning of October.  I think he's more excited about that fact that he gets to ride on a REAL school bus than actually going to the pumpkin patch during some of our conversations about it.  Anyways, it can't come soon enough for him.  Then on Friday they are having their Halloween party where they get to wear their costumes.  Watch out for spiderman.

Anyways, the school is doing a fundraiser to help raise money for items for the classroom.  Here's Jack's campaign...

No pressure, just thought some of you (family) might be interested.  If so, checks can be made out to Little Red School House and orders/money are due by Monday, November 8.  They are only selling the popcorn and cookie dough.  Each are $10.  I'll attach a link to the site so you can see what's offerred.  Jack says a big thanks!

http://www.savoryfoods.com/2010_order_form.pdf

Thursday, October 21, 2010

This is what happens...

when you try to do a photo shoot at your own house with your kids near bedtime.  We put the kids in some of our old clothes.  My mom made this little smocked dress for my sister and me and Tommy's grandmother made the little jacket for him.  Things started out okay, and then I think the pictures say it all.








 Maybe next time....

Sunday, October 17, 2010

HallZOOween

We spent yesterday afternoon at the zoo.  We love our zoo pass and definitely get every bit out of it each year!  The zoo does a trick or treating activity a few weekends before Halloween.  Oh my goodness, it was so crowded.  I don't think we even looked at many of the animals.  Here are some photos of the day.  Jack was loving being called Spiderman and Caroline was a UT cheerleader.  We heard lots of "go vols" around us!



Caroline did NOT like the snake!




Love, love, love this one.  Such as sweet moment.

Jack posing (and being a ham about it) with the giraffes

Monday, October 11, 2010

Thankful

As we are on fall break today, I got to thinking back a bit.  It was 4 years ago today that Jack's medical journey began.  I've added the carepage update from the first day at the hospital after finding out Jack's heart diagnosis.  It's amazing to look back now at how God provided for us during that emotionally, physically, everything tough time.  It was then that we met an amazing group of doctors and professionals that would become such an awesome support during the first year of his life.  It was during this time that we truly grew so close as a family and learned to really trust and depend on each other, but more importantly to put our trust and faith in God to take care of the situation, whatever the outcome.  It was during this time that I found so much peace in the verse Jeremiah 29:11 "For I know the plans I have for you", declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."  I knew Jack was going to be a fighter.  The last 4 years have been amazing to watch him grow and prosper and turn in to this big boy!  We are so thankful.

Here are some pictures of that first hopsital stay followed by the carepage update of the events:


Getting settled into our room at the hospital for a few days.  Can you see the eyes from the shock of finding out our baby had a heart problem?

heart monitors, pulse ox beeps, and IV fluids were going non-stop


I love the little one eye look.  And look at that color! (jaundice baby!)

Posted October 12, 2006 on carepages.com
So we have now been at Cincinnati Children's Hospital for 24 hours. The past couple days have been a whirlwind of the unexpected. It started out as a simple visit to the lactation consultant because little Jack was still a bit slow with his eating. Despite all of our attempts, he just could not take a good long feeding. At the lactation consultant, it was suspected that Jack might have a heart murmur or a cold. So, we headed straight to the pediatrician that day to find out. Turns out, the ped thought it might be a murmur so he set us up an appointment at the cardiologist at Children's for the next day (Thursday). Thursday's appointment revealed that Jack has 2 holes in his heart. We were completely taken aback by this diagnosis. We truly were expecting to hear something along the lines of a murmur that needed periodic checking. Never did we think that we would admit little Jack to the hospital until atleast Monday. And of course, we were devasted by the news that open heart surgery could eventually be needed. So, that's the history of the past 48 hours....


Here's what happening now. The doctors have started Jack on several medicines. One medicine is a diuretic that is working on removing the extra fluid around Jack's heart and lungs. Because of this fluid, his heart is not being very efficient and having to work extra hard. He is also taking some medicines that reduce his blood pressure. That way his heart is not having to work near as hard. These medicines are not intended to "fix" the holes in the heart. There really isn't a non-surgical way to do that...unless God intervenes. And we are still going to hold out for the latter option.

Right now, the focus is on "eating and growing." Jack has got to eat. Since his heart is working so hard, his little body is just worn out from all the work. He sleeps tremendous amounts. We have to stay on a strict schedule of feeding (or attempting to rouse and feed) him every 3 hours. Sometimes this is harder than imagined. The importance if this "eat and grow" theory is the proportion of the heart to the holes. If Jack is growing and his heart is growing, hopefully the holes will stay the same size and be smaller compared to the heart. The holes will not get any bigger. Unfortunately though, right now the holes are classified as medium to large. A cardiologist was very honest with me last night and informed me that she truly belives that Jack will be one of the ones that needs the open surgery. Not what we wanted to hear, but we appreciated the honesty. This surgery is supposed to be one that surgeon's like doing. By the book, they say. Anyways, we won't focus on that though. They would hope not to have to do that until he is around 6 months old.

So, eat and grow...that's the plan for the next couple of days. We are just waiting to see how his body responds. Monday we go back to cardiology for a follow-up echo. Hopefully this will show great improvement and we will be able to take him home.

We are so greatful for the people here at the hospital. The doctors and nurses are taking such great care of all 3 of us. We also know that God has put all of these people and resources in our path to help us during this extremely difficult time. We are also so thankful for the prayers and words of support/encouragement that so many of you are offerring. It is such a blessing to know that so many people are thinking of us. We'll keep updating!

Saturday, October 9, 2010

Stapps Ranch

We visited this great farm called Stapps Ranch today.  A guy I work with was telling us about it and our families planned a trip out there. Now, this was in Indiana and an hours drive, but when we got there, we knew it was worth the drive.  One of the first things we got to do was have an experience with a 5 week old Bengal tiger cub.  This little creature was amazing.  We always see people getting to be up close to them on tv, but this time it was our turn.  Caroline LOVED the little cub.  Jack didn't want to touch and we barely got a picture with him.  Then it was time to take a tractor ride.  The 1 hour long ride had 7-8 stops along the way where we got to see and encounter animals and feed them.  It was so fun and family friendly (and cheap)!  It was a bit warm, but other than that, the day was perfect!  We can't wait to go again sometime.
Petting the Bengal tiger cub

Love this picture

Jack was not so sure about the little guy

The male bison...he was huge!


Jack feeding the massive bison some corn

Taking a stop to feed ducks, rams, and goats

Back on the tractor

Caroline thinking about throwing the corn to the long horned steer


A beautiful fall day and feeing catfish!

Caroline not so sure about feeding the camels

Jack feeding the llamas.  We love the llama llama books, so this was neat for him.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Firehouse visit

We love our neighbors Richard and Ashley.  Ashley ran around with the kids and me yesterday while Tommy was out of town.  We went to a fun craft fair in the morning and then stopped by the firehouse after naptime to visit Richard. The kids had an absolute ball.

They look so little!

sitting on the back of the fire truck. 

Jack's showing off his badge he got.

Caroline got so many compliments on her cheerleader outfit.

How fun!

Is there any doubt they enjoyed the visit?